Happy Birthday Sara!

Yesterday, was my best friend's birthday, and I forgot to blog about it. I did call her and give her a BIG birthday hug over the phone. You've probably read my posts about her in the past, and I am sure I could gush all day long about her, and our friendship. I won't this time, but I will just say she's been a great friend to me, and I am lucky in my life to have a friend like her. Happy 26th Birthday Sara! I hope this year brings lots of new joys, dreams, into your life. I can't wait to see you in just a few weeks! Love you tons, give Ellie lots of kisses for me, and say "hi" to Ben!
xoxo-
Andrea

Blog Face Lift!

You may have noticed a change in the last few hours, and days. I've been trying out new designs and I think I finally found one that I love, who knows it may change again.

Even though Hubby doesn't "write" on this blog I wanted to make it more, and more about us and our lives. You'll see the subtle updates throughout.

Our lives are really about our marriage, our ministry, friends, family and daily antics! Enjoy, thank you for going on this journey with us.

xoxo-
Andrea & Orion

565

It's been 565 days since Orion and I said "I do."

Can we really call ourselves Newlyweds?

When do you stop saying you're a newlywed?

We're coming up on two years this summer, and my how the time has flown! I can hardly believe it. I think after two years I'll stop referring to us as newlyweds.

A ton has happened in 565 days; here's just a few highlights:

- Orion celebrated 1 year at the bank

- I got a new job

- I started working with Miss Twin Cities

- I started my own photography business

- Orion got credentialed with the AG

- we celebrated our first anniversary

- We got a puppy

- we bought a house

- I lost my job

- We left HPC to pursue work with Master's Commission

- Orion celebrated 2 years at the bank

There's no telling what could or will happen in the next few months as we approach 2 years, one things for sure it better be good.

25 Things

So, I've been getting "tagged" a lot lately on Facebook to do this 25 Things. Here's the deal, you write down 25 Random Things about yourself and tag others in your note. Then those 25 people you tag write down 25 random things about themselves and tag you in the note. Just a fun way to learn new things about the people in your life. Ok, so here goes. Here's my 25 Things you may or may not know:

1. My sister and I are Irish Twins.
2. I have two swimsuits that have never, and will never touch water.
3. My Hubby and I met at church.
4. I still am a fan of Britney Spears.
5. One time a boyfriend in HS gave me a sweater for Christmas, and I ended up giving it to my Mom.
6. I secretly, want to move back to Arizona.
7. I want to have twins someday.
8. I still own all my pageant wardrobe, and sometimes wear it around the house.
9. In HS I was voted Most Talkative.
10. I wanted to be a Rockette, until I found out there's a height requirement.
11. I love Jon & Kate Plus 8.
12. I love finding the perfect greeting cards for people.
13. I hate doing most house work ie: dishes and laundry.
14. I used to be a band geek: playing both the baritone & alto sax.
15. When I was a kid I wanted to go into broadcasting.
16. My sister and I are 11 mo. apart, and for a month and a half we're the same age.
17. All the men in my family have been or are currently serving in the military.
18. I'm an Army & Air force brat :)
19. I am terribly clumsy at times.
20. I love to laugh.
21. I know all the words to "There she is, Miss America."
22. I have kept a journal for every year of my life since I was 10. Someday my kids will read them.
23. One day I want to direct my own local pageant in the MAO system.
24. I want to live in warmer weather.
25. Next year we'll start trying to have a baby.

There you have it, now go do your own!!!!

Thoughts on 'The Bachelor'- Part IV

Wowzers! This weeks episode did not disappoint, and was not short of tears and emotions from the ladies. I sat on the edge of my seat as Jason "broke" the rules and didn't give out the final rose to one of the 3 remaining ladies. I for one was happy that he did this, I like to call this next section:

Crazies of the house:

Shannon- You are a stalker! That's all there is to it, who stays up late to wait for the other girl to come home? You're obsessed with him, I'm not sure if you like him but I am sure that you're obsessed with the idea of him. And staking out his chat with Melissa and cutting in was obnoxious too. PS- who says they are going to french kiss their dog? Sick.

Megan- once again your mouth is not pretty, you are not sweet and classy. You like to stir up drama.

Lauren- You are crazy demanding, who demands for a rose? Who tells someone they barely know, and "like" that they will be pissed if they don't one? You came across to strong, and if I were a guy I think I'd react the same way. You can be blunt and honest but you don't have to be so harsh, use some tact next time.

So in the end he sent you 3 ladies home. He also sent home lovely Nikki, who in tonight episode didn't come across so lucky and lovely. When she started freaking out about having to write I song, I want to tell her; "Have fun, relax, you're a control freak." I'm not sure what went wrong with her, I loved her the first few episodes but she needs to relax and take a chill pill. She's a lovely girl, she just needs to have more fun and not be so up tight about everything.

So in the end 5 girls remain, and I am happy with the final five. They all seems so wonderful and genuine in their own way.

Jillian, I love how awesome she is. She just seems like a great girl, and someone you can have fun with. I want to be her friend.

Naomi, she seems so sweet and like she genuinely cares about people. I love her look too, she's so different from the other girls.

Stephanie, is the most mature probably cause she's been through so much. She's also the last Mommy in the house. She's seems like a really sweet woman, who just wants to take care of someone, and find her best friend. I really love her.

Molly, I love how laid back and go with the flow she is. She seems like she can handle this experience. She makes it easy to want to like her, and be her friend.

Melissa, she's cute and southern. I think she's very likable. I love how open and honest she is, and it's not creepy or weird. Just like a real girl would be in a relationship with a person she likes.

It's hard to tell at this point who will stay or go, I like them all. Next weeks episode is sure to be good with the ladies traveling to Seattle to see Jason in his element. We'll see at the surprising and shocking rose ceremony who is left crying and who is left still standing.

Till next week!

Viva Las Vegas- Part 3

This post is coming to you from my office at home, but I had to include the last few tid bits of my trip.

Sunday morning after Miss America, was like wow! I can't believe the week is already over, it went by so stinkin' fast. It was such a fun trip though! Hopefully one of our girls will make it there next year and we can go again!

Sunday morning we packed everything up as we had to check out of the hotel at 10 am, our flight didn't leave till 7 pm though! Kathy and I walked the strip, ate breakfast, had a Starbucks, and went shopping. Then we headed back to the hotel to relax, before leaving for the airport at 4 pm. We chilled out in the airport and ate dinner. This day was filled with tons of waiting around.

When we got to the airport, I had a most interesting time going through security. My suitcase weighed 57 lbs, and so I had to take stuff out of it. My laptop was raided, and I was asked to take my sweater off since they had to pat me down. It was so weird, and I just wanted to get on the plane.

We finally got into Minneapolis at 12:25 am, and after waiting a half and hour for our bags we finally got our luggage. During that half hour was filled with tons of laughing, and Judy was so annoyed with the teen sitting next to us tapping her cell on the counter. Maybe it was the lack of sleep, or maybe it was cause it was late.... but it sure was funny, and I haven't laughed that hard in a long time. It felt really good.

Now I'm back home, slept in this morning, watched all the Miss America interviews on all the talk shows this morning, and I am attempting to un pack my suit case. Here's a few photos from my last day in Vegas:

Miss America 2009....

........Is Katie Stam from Indiana! This is Indiana's first Miss America win! This has been a truly awesome experience to get to come to Miss America and see the pageant first hand, and get to be involved in so many activities. I have had a blast!! On to the pageant, it was an awesome night. I sat in the seat with my score cards in toe, and made my predictions. I picked 10 of the Top 15, then when they narrowed it down I picked 10 of the Top 12, and then again I picked 5 of the Top 7, and I picked the winner in the end.

A few hi lights: Miss Iowa!! So proud of my home state, what an amazing young lady.... and man can that girl tap!! I was so impressed, 2nd Runner up!! Congrats, Olivia. Getting to see Angie on the Miss America stage was so fun. She did such a good job, we're so proud of you!!

Just in case you missed it:

Earlier today, we went to the Miss America book signing party. That was so much fun to see all my favorite Miss America's and get my picture taken with them, like shameless groupie!

At the book signing, waiting in line.

Me with Miss America '06 & '07 Jennifer Berry, and Lauren Nelson...both from Oklahoma!

Miss America 1996 Shawntel Smith and myself...she's an Oklahoma girl too!

All of us on the final night.

Waiting for the show to begin. To see more of my pics from Miss America 2009 click here.

A side note: I picked 10 of the Top 15, 10 of the Top 12, and 5 of the Top 7, and I picked the winner! I should have made some bets on this! ;)

Viva Las Vegas- Part 2

Friday, morning my Aunt picked me up from my hotel and we headed out sight seeing. The first time I came to Vegas was to visit her when I was 14 with my Mom. I haven't been here since then, and I am now 26... you do the math! Anyway, first place we headed to was the famous Las Vegas sign. Where I ran into Miss Iowa's whole crew as they were taking pictures. We had a lovely chat, since we're all from Iowa.

Next up we headed back to The Strip, to tour hotels; Paris, The MGM Grand and see more sights. I caught the lovely water fountain show this afternoon in front of the Belagio Hotel, and another time tonight when it was all lit up. After that, we headed to this cute little place called Metro Pizza for lunch. Let me tell you what, I am sooo glad I am not competing this Saturday cause that pizza was good, and I had some of it. No swimsuits for me!

Later this afternoon after lunch we headed to my Aunt's house to meet up with her family. Which was a treat for me since I haven't seen my cousins, and Uncle Mark in years. We picked up my cousin Nicole from dance and she showed me around the studio, then we headed off to their house. We hung out, chatted, watched dance videos of Nicole, it was so fun and special that I was able to see her and her family.

Friday, night my Aunt surprised me with tickets to go see KA' Cirque Du Soleil at the MGM Grand Hotel. It was awesome, I'd never been to Cirque so it was a special treat for both of us. Big thanks to my Aunt for being my tour guide and treating me to a wonderful day! Plus tomorrow night she's coming to Miss America, it's going to be fun.

Log on tonight to TLC and vote for your favorite to make it into the TOP 15 at Miss America...you have till 5 AM Saturday morning to vote!! Click here to vote!

Viva Las Vegas- Part 1

I arrived in Las Vegas on Wednesday evening, my Aunt picked me up from the airport and took me to my hotel. It's been an awesome, fun filled past few days. Of coarse, the hi lights have been the evening nights at Miss America! Thursday, morning we tooled around Vegas and went to the Miss America trade show. This morning, my Aunt is picking me up and we are going to see Vegas. This has been an awesome vacation, the weather is awesome here!

bags packed, waiting at the train in Minneapolis to get to the airport.

New York, New York!

More pictures, and hi lights to come!

Countdown to Miss America: Day 3 of Prelims

Today, was filled with all things pageant and Miss America. We woke up early and headed to the trade show. Where Brooke tried on fabulous gowns, and picked out the winner of a swimsuit. It was awesome! I also loaded up on a pageant girls best friend; rhinestones! With the purchase of my Miss America ring, and pin! We all ate lunch together, before heading out onto the strip for some sight seeing. I haven't been to Vegas for like years, the last time I was here was when I was 14, so it was awesome to walk the strip and see the changes.

Tonight began night 3 of prelims. Tonight Angie performed her talent; "You Done Own Me" by Leslie Gore. She did a phenomenal job tonight, she sounded great! Tonight's prelim winners were:

Night 3 Prelim Winners:

Swimsuit: Miss New York

Talent: Miss Vermont (vocal)

Our Troop, getting ready to head into the theatre for night 3!

Brooke and I withe Erika Dunlap (Miss America '04)

After the show we all headed to the ballroom to visit Angie. Where Brooke and I proceeded to scout out as many "formers" as we could and get our picture taken with them! Then we retreated back to the hotel for some much needed rest! Tomorrow, we have a break in competitions till Saturdays pageant. I'm headed out tomorrow to spend the day with my Aunt who lives here in Vegas. I'm super excited to see her. It's going to be a fun day. Don't for get to watch TLCs Countdown to the Crown tomorrow night, and vote!!!

Countdown to Miss America: I'm here!!!

Well, it's 12:58 AM here..that means it's 2:58 AM at home with the time changes, but I am here!! And so excited! This afternoon my plane left at 4:15 pm, and got into Vegas about 5:15 pm. The flight was good, little turbulence but that's it. My Aunt Kara picked me up from the airport. It was so awesome to see her smiling face when I got off the plane. She then took me to my hotel to meet up with Kathy and Judy, where they had dinner ready and waiting for me. Then it was time to get dressed and ready for the show. My Aunt dropped the 3 of us off at Planet Hollywood where Miss America is being held.
Now, on to the good stuff...... tonight was night 2 of preliminary competitions. Angie competed in swimsuit and evening gown! It's amazing to be here, a life long dream of mine to come to Miss America. The theatre is amazing, the atmosphere is so cool. It's pretty neat to see the state contestants on the Miss America stage.

Night Two Prelim Winners:

Swimsuit: Miss Mississippi

Talent: Miss Georgia

Us with Angie after night two of prelims.

After the show there was a state visitation, where we were able to see Angie for the first time. It was awesome to see her all dressed up, and so excited! Tomorrow, is night 3 of prelims. Angie will be doing her talent tomorrow night. It's going to be exciting!

Countdown to Miss America: 1 day!

Less than 24 hours from now, I'll be on a plane to Las Vegas for Miss America. Actually this time tomorrow I'll be getting ready for Night 2 of preliminaries! I can't wait. But, before I go I need to pack and get things ready to leave. No, I haven't started packing, that's my mission for tonight! Hey, I've got all my outfits planned out in my head! Heck, I'm a pageant girl...they've been planned for weeks now! :)

I've been calling Kathy & Judy for 2 days now, getting the scoop and staying posted about Angie's week. It'll finally be nice to be there tomorrow! Here's a few more pics from Angie's week, as we get closer and closer to the crown:

Day 3: The 52 Miss America contestants made an appearance at the annual fashion show in Las Vegas! Angie, is in the middle 8 crowns in from the 1st row.

Day 3: The ladies visit the go cart track to benefit the CMN in Las Vegas! Angie, is in the top row first one on your left.

Now, I am off to mystic tan, pack and get some beauty sleep!! See you i Vegas tomorrow!

Happy Birthday little Brother!

Eighteen years ago today, my little brother was born. In one of the worst blizzard's in Iowa's history. I remember not being able to make it home that night after visiting my Mom and little brother in the hospital. We turned around and ended up staying in a hotel right next to the hospital that night. Shawn is the youngest of 4 kids, he's the last of us to turn 18, and graduate from high school. I can't believe that he's already 18, and about ready to graduate! It makes me feel old, and so proud at the same time!! He is taller than me, but he'll always be my younger brother. Out of my 3 siblings he and I are the most alike in our personalities. Happy Birthday Shawn, I love you so much and I can't wait to see you soon! May this be a year of changes, and growth and happiness! I am excited to see you graduate this Spring, and so excited for you as you start your military career! Love you bunches!

Thoughts on 'The Bachelor'- Part III

Last night's episode didn't disappoint for lack of drama, and it was oozing with tons of emotions, tears, and foul mouthed ladies (namely Megan & Natalie). Here's just a few thoughts on last night:

Some Sweet Moments:

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Jillian, getting another rose was a hi light! Love her, and I can't say it enough. She's warm, super funny, and seems totally comfortable in who she is, I can see why he likes her.

Stephanie's, 1:1 date with Jason, and her little Sophia! Oh my goodness, I cried. It was so sweet of him to do that for her. I really love her, I think she's great. She's been through a lot you can tell. I hope she's one that continues to win his heart.

Some Not so Sweet Moments:

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Natalie, and her 1:1 date with Jason on the road to nowhere. Sure, it was a scene right out of Pretty Woman, but lacking substance and real emotions from both ends. I was so sorry to see her lash out at the end. I get that she's upset, and has feelings but it was not classy of her at all to open her mouth and pour out hurtful and disgusting things. She truly showed her colors in that limo ride home.

Megan, and her mouth! I can't handle it. Why is she still there? I just don't feel like this girl is genuine at all.

Nikki, and her awkward kiss at the end with Jason. I was cringing for her on my couch as I watched. How awful was that? She used to be one of my faves, but after tonight I am urging her to pull herself together, get out there, stop whining about everything and just focus!

My faves for the week:

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Jillian

Stephanie

Naomi- she was my silent sleeper, and came out of nowhere for me this week. She seems cute, and like a really great girl! I want to see more of her and Jason!

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Stay tuned next week for more fun and drama from the ladies of the house, and watch as Bachelor, Jason narrows it down even more!

Making History.

Today, is a day for the history books. I've been up early watching the news, and I am amazed at the crowds gathered at the capitol today. I think it's important today to remember and for the next four years, no matter what your political views are, no matter who you voted for, remember to pray for our President and our Nation! As Christians, I think it's our responsibility not to argue, or put people down or an administration but to support and pray. Our nation needs our prayers, Our new President needs our encouragement, and prayers as well. Today, is a new day, another chance for God to be in control. Pray that God would be in the next four years of this administration, pray that the people around this administration make right decisions that will help our country. Let's make history today in doing that.

Countdown to Miss America: 2 days!

It's 2 days till I hop on a plane and head to Vegas for Miss America! I am getting so excited, I just got a call from my Co-director Kathy. They left for Vegas this afternoon, and made it there safely. The closer it gets, the more excited I am! I haven't started packing yet, but I'm super excited to get dressed up every night for the preliminaries and watch Angie compete. Hopefully I'll get to blog daily about my adventures, so stay tuned for that. And, if you haven't caught any of the episodes yet for Countdown to the Crown, the last one airs this Friday night before the Miss America pageant in TLC! We're all wishing Angie the best of luck here from Minnesota! You make us proud girl!

Day 1: Angie left on Thursday, for Vegas. Here the girls are making their very 1st appearance in Vegas! Angie's in the second row 6th in from your left!
Day 2: The ladies make a stop for a Gondola ride, and flip pacakes for a cause at IHOP! She's the on the top row 2nd one in from your right! Can't wait to see her take the Miss America stage!

Preacher Man

Wednesday, Orion preached his very first night at Celebration to the youth. It was an awesome night, the kids really were involved and it was awesome!! Orion shared his testimony, it really made an impact. He has such an amazing testimony of what God's done in his life and I think it's so impacting every time I hear it. Sunday, morning we have a youth service as well and Orion preached this morning as well. This time he talked about Taming the Tongue in James 3. I hate to brag, but I did give him this sermon idea. I taught on this to my Jr. Highers a few years back, and gave Orion a kickin' illustration to use. What is it, you may ask?

We brought in a real cow tongue to illustrate the point to the kids about how the things we say effect the others around us, and sometimes the things we can say to others can be really nasty and hurtful. And, how we need to have self control, and say things that are up lifting and beneficial to people.

Orion, and his tongue.

It went over really well, the students were grossed out, and really curious all at the same time. Either way it really got their attention, and I think they are going to remember this for a long time to come!

Having done this illustration myself, I'll be really excited if I don't see another tongue for a while. Sometimes the craziest things, are the most effective at reaching students.

Bentley & Me

This past Friday night Hubby and I went to see the movie Marley & Me. Now, I'd heard that it was super sad, however being a lover of my pup Bentley I still wanted to see the movie. And, Hubby made the sacrifice to come see it with me, so sweet! The movie was such a cute story, and I felt like it was a true portrayal of how our pets really become part of the family! I admit, I cried like a baby, and it made me want to run home to Bentley! I've never had a dog before, Bentley is my first puppy! I grew up having a cat my whole life, and now that I have Bentley, I can't believe just how much he's become part of our lives and how much I love him! He's been a great companion to me being home these last few months. I love how he lays at my feet when I am in the office at my computer, and even though sometimes he does naught things, I still love him! Friday morning I caught this shot of Bentley playing in the snow outside, you can see why I love him:

Bentley

Finding it....

This week has been crazy, it has been busy, and hasn't slowed down. But, this week has also been the most encouraging week I have had since I lost my job in October. In the last few weeks and months since then, I will not lie... they have been the hardest days I have faced in a while. They have tested my strength, will, belief in myself, my patience, our finances, our will, and my relationship with God. It has added stress and tested my life, my marriage, and my relationships with others have changed in more ways than one. I have asked myself and God more questions in just a few short weeks than I have my whole life. It has brought me it tears, and to my knees more than a few times. I have been angry, sad, confused, lied to, felt betrayed, and abandoned all at the same time.
In all of this I have tried to cling to the simple truth, that God has always been faithful to me, and that doesn't stop or change now. And, I know that is not easy. It's times like this when our faith is tested, and our relationship with Christ is most important to get us through. In times like these your mind, the Devil, they all play tricks on you. You can beat yourself up more than a few times, trying to make sense of it all, and you will still never find the answers, or make yourself feel better. It has been rough.
But, this week I found it, I broke through what seemed so hopeless and impossible. I started being real with myself, my feelings and real with God. I prayed like I don't know if I ever have before, I was more honest with God than I have in a long time. Sometimes in life we put things on auto pilot and just coast. Before I lost my job, life was good, life was wonderful. God had been faithful to us, he'd been providing for us like we'd prayed. Life was amazing. But, at the same time looking back on it now... I was coasting. Doing everything right, but still coasting. And, now as I sit back and reflect over these last few weeks wondering what does God want to teach me in all this? How can he use this unfortunate situation in my life for good? Or to show me something I otherwise may not have seen?
For the first time in weeks, I am ready. I am in that place. I know that I wasn't before, I was hurt and angry. And while it does not change what has happened, it does change me. In life, we have a couple of options: we can either choose to be bitter, and not grow. Or we can choose to use everything that happens to us good or bad and give it to God and let him make something great out of it, let him change us. I am now, in that place where I want to grow, I want to learn from this. While I may be able to forgive, I will not forget. And I realized that for my sake I have to let go of the hurt, and the people who have hurt me through this mess in order for me to be a complete, whole person the way God wants me to be.
I have been so encouraged this week in my prayer time, so encouraged by God and what he has for me despite all that has happened. I am finally forgiving myself, and looking on. Finally finding some peace that I have so much wanted and needed. God is stretching our finances in a way that I never thought possible. Food is lasting longer, gas in our car is stretching, our bills are getting paid, unexpected bonuses are coming out nowhere, and photography jobs are coming. God is in this. He is changing my attitude and my perspective. I am seeing things in a whole new light. He has put people around me that truly care about Orion and I and have encouraged us. I am so grateful, and thankful. I am thankful and blessed to know that I still serve a God that cares, and even though I didn't see it right away he never left, and he was always there.
I was sitting in the car a few days after I lost my job and this song came on the radio. A song I've heard many times before, but this day I sat pulled my car over, listened, and cried to the words of this song. Since then, this song has been an anthem for me, and outlet for me, and I have prayed these words over and over again;

The pathway is broken and the signs are unclear

And I don't know the reason why you brought me here

But just because you love me the way that you do

I'm gonna walk through the valley If you want me to

Cause I'm not who I was When I took my first step

And I'm clinging to the promise You're not through with me yet

So if all of these trials

Bring me closer to you Then I will go through fire if you want me to

It may not be the way I would have chosen

when you lead me through a world that's not my home

but you never said it would be easy you only said

I'd never go alone yeah oooh oh.

so when the whole world turns against me and I'm all by myself

and I can't hear you answer my cries for help

I'll remember the sufferin' your love put you through

And I will go through the valley If you want me to.

Tonight, I get to sleep easy knowing that God is always there no matter what, he's always faithful to me, and to us. And when I am walking through the valley, I want to remember exactly how I feel, in this exact moment, and know exactly how much God loves me.

Behind the Scenes

One of the really awesome things that I get to be apart of being the on the Miss Twin Cities committee is all the behind the scenes preparation that goes into preparing the girls for Miss Minnesota, and other events. It's a lot of fun and so rewarding to see the girls grow and change as their year goes on. It's so exciting to see the work, dedication and caring that you put into them come out and flourish. This past week was no exception! Wednesday, we headed over to Paula Preston's studio for her "official" photo shoot as Miss Twin Cities. It was awesome to sit back watch Brooke get ready, and change into all her different looks. It was a total pampering time for her complete with her own hair & make up taken care of. Here's a few pics from our day:

getting glam!

Judy, Brooke and myself at her shoot!

Blogaversary Coming Up!

I don't even know if that's a word, but it sounds nice! On 2.6.2009 will be my very first blogaversary on blogger! Just a few short weeks away, it's exciting. I started blogging on Myspace long before this, but it's been awesome to join the blogging community in the last year. Who knows what I'll be blogging about that day, you'll just have to wait and see!

Some thoughts on....

My puppy Bentley....

This weekend Bentley decided to chew through just about everything:

What do you do when your dog chews through your pre-lit Christmas tree wires?

Or when he decides to attack the rug in the bathroom? We are on rug #2 now.

Or when he chews on your coat collar, no longer making it pretty?

Or when you have bought him every chew toy imaginable and he still decides that he doesn't want it?

This weekend Bentley also decided that he didn't want to eat out of his dog dish:

What do you do when your dog barks at his dish, and refuses to eat?

I think everything they saw about dogs and children is true for the most part. He's trying my patience much like a child does, or like how my nieces do. :)

(me & bentley taking a little snooze together)

This past weekend I called Bentley, "my perfect child" here's why:

He can't smoke, or lie, or stay out late with friends.

He can't drink, or talk back, or get in trouble with all his friends.

He's become quite the companion to me while I am at home.

He's pretty much awesome!

A Worley Valentines Day

It's just about a month till Valentines day, I've got something up my sleeve. I decided and offered to plan this years Valentines day for Hubby and I. Last year he went over the top with 3 different surprises throughout the entire day. It was sweet, thoughtful and romantic. So this year I decided it might be fun for me to take a crack at planning something special in return. My first idea, was for us to buy each other gifts that re mined each other of our first date. I won't tell you what I'm planning on getting, just in case he decides to read this post. Secondly, I'm planning another part to this Valentines day...... you'll just have to wait and see what it is.
Just a recap: Our first date was on May 12th, 2005. Hubby took me out to dinner to McCormick & Schmick. Afterwards, we walked around downtown for a while getting to know each other. Then, we headed over to my best friends house to watch a movie with her and her hubby. And their buildings fire alarm went off, we all had to evacuate the building. After that fun, he took me home and gave me a hug! :)

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What are you special plans for Valentines day?

Or what has been your favorite Valentines day with your Hubby or Wife?

Thoughts on 'The Bachelor'- Part II

Monday nights episode was nothing short of entertaining and drama filled. Recap: The ladies made nice in their new house, they had a pool party with Jason, they were told that not everyone would get a date with him every week...and this is where things got good. With this news some of the ladies went into over drive to get the time they wanted with him. And, the rose ceremony heated up as Erica and Megan battled it out over she said, she said stuff.





PS- I am loving that the episodes are 2 hours long! Hopefully they stay that way.

Still Loving:

Jillian- love her personality. and she got the 1st one on one date of the season. GO girl!

Nikki- she's outspoken, knows what she wants, and isn't afraid.

Growing on me:

Kari- she seems sweet and genuine. I want to see more of her.

Stephanie- this girl deserves her happy ending, I want her to find true love.

Needs to go:

Erica- drama, drama, drama. She has a filthy mouth, ladies don't talk like that.

Megan- she stirs up drama with Erica. It's obvious they do not like each other. I think they both need a taste of their own medicine and need to be sent home.

Shannon- she knows to much. It's weird, and scary.

Hilights: the awesome one on one date with Jillian to the Disney Hall. Pretty cool.

Lowlights: the drama, caddyness, and Lisa leaving so early, seems like every lady wants to prove just how "motherly" they are. It's annoying. Just be yourself. That matters.

xoxo